




All the bishops were calling to find out if they should cancel services. Steve told the bishops to make the decision based on the health and safety of the ward members. In two buildings, the 9:00 services were cancelled. In the Shelley Lane building,(the one in my subdivision) the bishop held shorter services, they held the first hour in the dark, and then had a very short scarament meeting. Our church starts at 11:00, I had heard that the power would not be back on until 2:30pm, so at 10:30 I went to the church to see if our ward was cancelled or not. Our bishop said, were having church pioneer style! So we came. Remember most people weren't awake when the power went out, you should have seen the young women, coming to church without any hairdryers, flat irons, curling irons, etc. It was a really unique experience. We all wore coats, because the heat wasn't on in our building. We actually had a really nice experience, one of our young women leaders said if we're having a hard time with just no electricity, we really have problems! We decided the pioneers were up in heaven just shaking their heads at us. 
Today we went to Dugway for the second meet. Kaylea was tired from yesterday, but was running the mile, and the 4X400 relay.
It was actually pretty weird coming to Dugway Proving Grounds for the track meet. Dugway High School has not had a decent track for about 10 years, so they have never held a track meet there. Steve and I got to security and were quite surprised with how tight the security is there. We had to wait this far back until the guard waved us forward, then he asked us what we were doing there. We told him we just wanted to see the track meet, would that be okay? He said that it would if all of our paper work was in order, and he wasn't joking! We had to turn around and go back to a visitor parking area, take our driver's license, car registration, and proof of insurance into the guard shack and have a temporary permit made up for us. They put all of our info into the computer, printed out an official looking form, and then even had a seal stamped into it. Then we came back to our car, drove it to the security guard and had to show it to him along with both of our driver's licenses! Whew! I'm glad we got through!!
The army just put in a new track at the High School, and it hadn't been used for a track meet yet, so there was a sort of ceremony before they could kick off the track meet. We heard from the commanding officer of Dugway, and then they had an inagural run where one man carried a flag and was followed by the commanding officer, a boy and girl representative from each High School at the track meet, and about 10 army guys. They all ran one lap around the track in a kind of pack. The army guys were doing their chanting while they ran, and their families had all come to watch them. I imagined the Blackhams watching their dad...it was sweet.
Of course dad is always excited to see his kids run, today was no different. If he had been in town yesterday, whe would have been in Logan watching her first meet.
So Kaylea ran the mile first. She started out in the lead, and stayed there until the third lap. This picture is of her third out of four laps. She is in the light blue shorts. Kaylea and Michelle fought for the lead the whole last lap. I got a video of the end of the race...she took first place! Her time was 6:07, five seconds slower than yesterday, but like I said she was a little tired from all the races yesterday. The video is a little bit blurry, sorry.
The girls that ran the 4X400 took first place. There was only one girls team running, so they ended up running with the boys. She said they almost beat one of the boy's teams, but ended up coming in last place. All in all it was a really fun track meet.

As I was leaving with my case of fabric softener and my other small things, the lady at the register told me that anyone who shops today can have two cases of liquid dishwasher soap for free. Each case again had 4 gallons of liquid dishwasher soap in them. So in the end, I got 8 gallons of liquid dishwasher soap, 4 gallons of liquid fabric softener, 72 dishwasher tablets, and 2 small boxes of fabric softener sheets for $5.50, that ends up being 16 items for about 34 cents each. Yes, I was thrilled!! What can I say, good deals are VERY exciting to me.
This picture is missing two gallons of dishwasher soap, I made Erin take and try.
That weekend, I decided to run with members of my Ragnar Relay team. They were running 14 miles. The most I have run in one day is 8, but I thought I could tag along and drop out when it got to be too much. I have exercise induced asthma, and have not been able to find my inhaler (one of the reasons I haven't run these long distances yet). When I hit about 10 miles, I was struggling with my breathing. I felt really good otherwise, but when you can't get enough air, you can't run very far. I walked for a few minutes, and had the rest of the team run ahead. I was able to catch up with them again. By mile 13, we were close to home, and I had had it. The rest of the team ran another loop in the subdivision, and I just headed for home. I was really surprised that I made it 13 miles. I did finally replace the inhaler, and I hope that will help me on these long runs. I have really enjoyed running further for the team. I hope I don't let them down on the day of the race.
One of the neatest things about having Steve be the stake president is the people we get to meet. On Friday, March 6th, we were invited to a dinner with the Presidency of the Salt Lake Temple, their wives, and about 9 other stake presidents with their wives (most were from the Tooele Valley). It was held in the temple, and was a really fancy dinner. When I got into the banquet room, there were name tags at each place, telling us where we would be sitting. I was placed next to the temple matron. I was a little bit nervous, what would I talk about? I shouldn't have been, it was such a neat experience. Her uncle was my old bishop in Woods Cross, where I grew up. I remember in a primary program having to say that I live in the house where my bishop was born. She was so excited to learn that I grew up in the old Hackee home. I was also able to meet Lonnie Gleed, who had been dad's assistant when he was recorder of the Salt Lake Temple. I guess he has been the temple recorder for many years now. It was such an enjoyable evening, and Sheldon Child, the new temple president is such an amazing man.

On March 10th, I was in charge of the combined young men and young women activity. I had decided to have everyone bring things to put in sack lunches for the homeless. They have a list of specific items that Tooele County Relief Services would like to have put in the lunches, so I gave that list to each of the young men and young women. I thought we would be able to have about 60 lunches made. At the end of the night, the final count was 110! I was so surprised, and happy with how generous the people from our ward can be. I had been nervous about the activity, but it turned out great.
Then on Friday the 13th, Steve and I went up to Orem and picked up Jessica to spend the evening with her. We went out to a movie...Race to Witch Mountain, and then took her to Tepanyaki, Sakura. We bought so much food, she had a lot to take home with her. It was so fun to spend time with her.
Things are much better now, she found a full time job that she really enjoys, and she is the compassionate service person in her ward. This weekend they had Stake Conference and Elder Bednar came and spoke at both the Saturday and Sunday sessions of conference. Jessica absolutely LOVED it. 
This is a picture of Jeff and Ryan, a couple of Conner's friends from the neighborhood. Jeff (in black) had a really great right hook, and almost won the whole tournament. But the award for the lightweight boxer of the day was Skyler Snarr.
Skyler is in the lower picture on the far right. He could really pack a punch. After the boxing, Dad took the boys over to the church for some basketball. He wore them out for about an hour. Then they came back for pizza, pop, cake and ice cream.
The boys who attended are, clockwise from the top left side: Tyson Elfors, Landon Stice, Cade Coon, Dylan Rowley, Ben Rigby, Mason Curtis, Bridger Collings, Skyler Snarr, Ryan Egan, Conner Collings, and Jeff Tuckett.
The boys played a short game of football out front, and then came back to watch a movie. I think Conner had a great time, and really appreciated all of his friends being there. On the way home from dropping off the boys I asked him if he was surprised, he said yes, he thought we would just go out to dinner on family night and maybe have some cake. He really liked this a lot more.
The next picture reminded me that we definitely live in "the country". When you can walk just outside of your back yard and have your pick of "rustic" cars to take pictures with...you know you're a redneck! I actually really like this picture, I can imagine my dad doing an oil painting of this...the truck is GREEN dad!
We've lived in Grantsville for eight years now, and in the Tooele valley for 12. Prior to that, I would have never guessed that we would own horses! And the thought of my husband as a cowboy was laughable, he was more the business type. It has taken the full 12 years, but he is finally embracing his role of "cowboy." It all started with a pair of cowboy boots, they were just really comfortable. Then he moved on to Wrangler's because they are easier to ride his horses in than any other brand. Next came the duster jacket...much warmer than regular coats when you want to ride in cold weather. Over Christmas, I had a custom pair of chaps made for him...thanks Uncle Allen! The chaps are really good at keeping your legs warm in winter, and keeping your legs from getting cut up in all the sage brush, and low branches of trees and bushes.
If you notice in this picture, the only thing Steve is lacking is a cowboy hat! I have rehearsed the benefits of a cowboy hat over and over to him. It keeps the sun off your neck, and ears. It keeps you cooler than a baseball cap. Steve tells me he will NEVER wear a cowboy hat. Come on Steve, embrace your inner cowboy, take the final leap!!! Go COUNTRY!! I can say this, it doesn't matter if he's a cowboy, a janitor, a manager, an FBI agent, a bishop, a stake president, or anything else, he's PERFECT for me!!! Love you Steve! 
Steve and I decided to try our luck at Stuffed Manicotti, and for our dessert we made chocolate covered strawberries. We were all supposed to make any type of dessert, that we would not be judged on. Steve is an amazing chef, and really helped me to step it up a bit, he has great taste, and really wanted to make our plate look nice. 
Because Erick was gone, we had Tera be our judge. She judged on taste, use of the secret ingredient, and presentation. We each took 1/2 hour to shop and 1 hour to cook.
Here are the dishes each couple made. Erin and Brayden made stuffed mushrooms, and alfredo pizza. Their dessert was chocolate cookies, raspberries, with white chocolate whipped cream, very good! Lee and Tricia made fresh pizza, and a sausage dip with chips. For dessert they made a coconut, rice pudding. It was delicious. Jared and Casi made penne al forte, and salad. For dessert, they made rootbeer floats, yummy! All I can say is EVERYTHING was Wonderful!! I ate so much, I thought I was going to pop.
Tera is tallying up the scores... it was a really fun day. Good food, and good fun. Tera said that our manicotti tied with Lee and Tricia's dip and chips, but because Lee and Tricia won last time, they let me and Steve take home the Iron Chef Wright apron. We were so happy.
Jason Allen: stake clerk, Bill Lawrence: 1st Counselor, Steve: Stake President, Rick Phelps: 2nd Counselor, and Troy Tuckett: Executive Secretary
They say a picture is worth a thousand words, which is good for me, because I don't know where to start talking about Grandpa's funeral. It was a very rough week for the family. These first pictures are at the viewing, just some of the great grandchildren. Steve, Kelton, Cameron (hiding), Sandi (their mom), Kaylea, and Jessica.
I'm not as good at these names, but they are Alison and Corey's kids(Tawnie... sorry don't know the boy's names), Blaine and Laura's boys(Caden, Ethan, Mason, and Garrett...Conner's helping me), Trevor and Melissa's boys (Colton and Bridger) and Conner. It's nice that Conner has cousins close by that he has fun with.
Grandpa was a WWII veteran, he served in the navy, so he had an honor guard with a 21 gun salute and the bugle. It was really moving, if you scroll down further, I have taken a video of this part. It was an incredible experience to watch this part of the ceremony.
They draped his casket with an american flag, and after the ceremony, folded it and gave it to Loa Jean. Steve gave the family prayer before the funeral service, and his brother Marc dedicated the grave. As I said before it was a trying week, not only did Grandpa pass away, but Grandpa has 4 kids; David, Allen, Eloise, and Craig, Allen has been in the hospital all week with some sort of intestinal blockage. He was at the funeral, but in a wheelchair, and was still really sick. Eloise has a granddaughter who has a severe medical condition. She ended up having water around her heart and has been in ICU at Primary Children's Medical Center for the past few weeks. And Craig (who was supposed to dedicate the grave) ended up in the emergency room with kidney stones. He was in surgery during the funeral services.
Our whole family was able to attend. Jessica took a couple of days off work in Orem and came out for the viewing and the funeral. After the funeral, she had to go right back home.
Steve and his dad.
After going to the cemetery, the ward made the family a nice dinner. It was nice to spend time with family that we haven't seen in a long time. We are so sorry for Loa Jean, she will be lonely for a while, grandpa always made everyone around him happy. He was quite the comedian.
I will be posting pictures, etc. of Grandpa's funeral later, but I wanted to post this video. Grandpa served in the navy, so he had an honor guard present at his funeral. It was really neat, I was amazed at how beautiful the bugle was. One funny thing about this video, watch the little boy in the bottom right corner. He wasn't the only person who jumped when they did the 21 gun salute, but I'm glad I got it on video!

